Every child is unique, with his or her own personality, interests and developmental timetable. Not all babies speak, crawl or walk at the same time. Think of all the hours your child spends learning to roll over, sit up, crawl, cruise furniture and walk holding your hand before letting go to take the first big steps alone.
Similarly, parents eagerly await the day their child speaks those exciting first words. Some children talk early, others a little later. Some children prefer to watch and listen to everyone else, not saying a word at first. Then all of a sudden your child is talking nonstop, catching you by surprise. The same is true for all childhood milestones. Some skills may suddenly appear “out of the blue,” while other skills may need much more exposure and practice before your child shows her or she can do it. For language and pre-reading development, it’s very similar.
- Babies learn first to pay attention to voices, words, songs and books. They respond by smiling, cooing, pointing to pictures and making sounds that eventually become words.
- Toddlers pay attention longer and begin to show an interest in reading by turning pages, pointing to and naming pictures and finishing sentences.
- By age 3, little ones understand more about story plots, characters’ problems and feelings and simple connections with their own lives. They also learn about letters, start to recognize their own names in print and show pleasure with stories and songs that rhyme, repeat phrases or use words that start with the same sound. Drawing, pretending to write and “reading” to their toys may become favorite activities.
- By ages 4 and 5, children start to show an awareness of the reading readiness skills they have been exposed to, such as knowing most letter names and letter sounds, understanding more about word parts, or maybe even reading and trying to spell some words. A lot of work, disguised as play, by you and your child will make these reading development breakthroughs possible.